Are you chasing the pretty girl next door since the last six months? Does she rarely return your phone calls and reply ‘some other time’ when you ask her to join for coffee? It is time to realize she’s not that into you, and here’s why…
No butterflies, no bells; She is not in love with you
Pretty straight, eh? Yes, that is the truth you need to tell yourself. It might be hard to believe considering the fact you are popular and good looking. She is the last one to wish you on your birthday and the first one to exit from your gatherings. However, she only likes you, your interests and who you are; some of the essentials for being friends. And there is a clear, distinct line between liking and loving someone. The sooner you understand, the better it will be for you to accept and move on.
She is looking for something else
You are not born to inspire and satisfy whoever you meet and same goes for you. Do you remember that chubby cousin who always naggs you? She insists you to accompany her everywhere, from college to shopping malls, and you hate it. You might find her cute but she is not what you are looking for. The same goes for the girl you are falling for. Stop trying hard. If she was into you, she would not let you wait for months and years. She would have surely returned your phone calls, shown anger on your neglect and would have definitely gone out of the way to seek your attention/approval.
She has said ‘No’ several times
It might not have been a loud shut up call, but she has refused and shoved your lovey dovey behavior a number of times. It is you, who is not ready to accept a ‘No’. Every time you offer her a space to sit, she will make an excuse and find another place. Do you remember the last time you messaged her ‘can’t sleep’ or ‘thinking about you’ and she replied ‘oh, have an early morning class, gotta sleep, good night’?
Now, do you still need a reminder that she’s not that into you?